Objectified and Pissed

The other day at work one of the girls said “OMG, have you heard the name of R Kelly’s new song?” which allegedly is titled something to the effect of ‘Girl I Just wanna get you pregnant’ (major kiss my backside teeth moment!) Whether this is or is true or false… what the fuck is up with old dudes these days.

I may sound a little touchy but that’s just because for the last 13 weeks I’ve had men who are old enough to be my father undress me with their eyes, lick their lips, pucker up at me, ask me if we look good together, if they can have a hug, who’ll be sleeping in my bed tonight, if I’m a virgin and whether I like it hard or soft! I CANNOT take this sleazy disturbing bullshit anymore!

The fact that they are old enough to be my father is just too much to handle, one of these sleazy fuckers actually thinks I’m 21 not 25 (not like that would be enough to make a significant difference) but didn’t let that stop him!

To them it’s all one big joke and could never be in anyway disrespectful to the female that they are objectifying. Not only is it disrespectful and enough to make you want to punch a fucker square in the face, it’s also very embarrassing. Not in the sense that they have embarrassed me but in the sense that I feel embarrassed for them.

The fact that they somehow think that it is ok or even normal to speak to not only girls that are young enough to be their daughters in such a distasteful and disrespectful manner, but also simply the fact that they think that it’s acceptable to speak to any female of any age in that manner is truly embarrassing and simply pathetic.

If these so called grown ass men with grey hair were the same age as me, yeah I’d be pissed but at the same time based on the fact that they are boys not yet men in their 40’s and 50’s, it would kind of be expected of them as they are still in the stage of their life where they are acquiring game. But when you are a big ass man with a wife and grown ass kids at home you have no excuse. You should know better.

God help the young lady or any lady that falls for this crap.

Act your age not your fucking shoe size!

Rant over.

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27/05/12 Lusty Love

This week at work there has been one song that has been playing on the radio over and over again which is something that can easily piss someone off, but every time this song came on all I could do along with the other girls in the office was smile and sing along.

Enjoy my Lusty Love of the week. Mwah! xxxxx

The Taurus Male and This Aquarian Female

When it comes to the opposite sex do you ever find that you always attract a particular type of guy? Tall, dark, hansom, driven and successful with a hint of adventure? Or complete D-bags?

Well for the past couple of years I have attracted a particular type of guy, they have all looked different, worked or not worked in some cases in a variety of industries, and have often had little in common other than football. So how can they have been a particular type of guy cut from the same cloth if they were so different? Well… they all were born under the Taurus Zodiac sign!

If any of these relationships with Taurus males had been successful I wouldn’t be here questioning why our paths keep crossing, but the fact that they just never seem to work out has made me more than curious about the compatibility of my sign as an Aquarian with that of the Taurus dude.

So, after meeting yet another Taurus male the other night I decided to attempt to find out what’s the deal with our compatibility, and according to www.ganeashaspeaks.com this is what I’ve found ….

‘Compatibility of Aquarius Woman and Taurus Man
Both Taurus man and Aquarius woman seem to be unconventional and appealing to each other at the first sight. This match does not fair well on the compatibility chart as they have different ideas and opinions towards life.Both try to impose their wills on each other which may result into a battle of wills. The compatibility is not good between a Taurus man and a Aquarius womanbecause he is very orthodox and she is a radical thinker. At last this match may end up into a mess.’

With that being said I felt compelled to write a little letter for all you single Taurus dudes out there that may just cross my path one day…

Dear Taurus Male,

It has come to my attention that we have shit compatibility? Maybe our paths will keep crossing because apparently opposites attract? But as much as I am attracted to your calm natured appeal and as much as you are attracted to my free spirit and impulsive ways, we always seem to end up in a mess.

So here’s the deal, next time our paths a cross we address matters properly, I’ll figure out if you’re a home body that can and will compromise and you'll discover whether my desire to always try something or someplace new can be met half way, then we’ll take it from there. But if by any means Mr Taurus you have not overcome your issues of dealing with change, I politely ask that you keep it moving because change is inevitable. However if you are open to change and are not afraid of a little hard work against what is written in the stars, then this Aquarian female who embraces the unexpected can roll with that.

Love Sara (A little Aquarian lady who only seems to attract Taurus males). xx